[And then it hits her that something must be going on with the network. Sure enough, she reads the last text. They've never private messaged before either.]
Welcome to Duplicity. Sometimes the devices decide to send messages to other people unbeknownst to you.
What is a spa? [Of course by now she knows what the other facial is, though she hasn't given that many blowjobs in her time in the city.]
Were you trying to charm me? [She is a smart girl, but sometimes she's clueless.]
No. I was not asking anyone's opinions on that. Though yours is a good answer.
I cannot say I can even picture what you are describing, and it is likely not something I would want to participate in. [The lesser of the two facials she would like most likely.]
Hmm, so now I have to consider if the lady wants to be charmed, and sweetly asked nicely and then find myself captivated by her eyes and mouth... or told to be a good girl and see how much she can take. Hmmmm.
Its not the same having a lover pamper you, or being pampered together.
Flat stones that are heated and they're laid down along the back and the muscles give way under the almost too hot heat.
I would say you would be captivated by my eyes and mouth either way, but I could be very good when I want to be. [Although she naturally leans on the side of being a bit of brat.]
I think if someone I knew and was intimate with already, I perhaps would. I do not see myself going to a place for it.
I would say most of my life I have been pampered still. I know what it is like to be catered to. It is not a bad thing, especially if someone is doing it to show that you are cared, but I would hardly make it a requirement, and I do not know if it is something I would actively choose. But I can be a reciprocal partner. [Both in that she wants the person she is with to have things they like, and that she can also give herself.]
I have only experienced that once. At the Crucible. I should have realized it when we were signing our consent away. [It was a case of too much too quickly, and that she's only just now circling back to kinks again.]
Do you prefer then to be... what is it called again? A Dominant that then serves? [It's right in the name, but it isn't like she has these conversations a lot. She's still learning and exploring.]
When its happened in my life its never been like it is for many here. It was cruelty and dangerous. With no limits. I've been on both side of things but the truth? I can't resist when a strong woman puts me in my place.
Some people will take what they can. I learned a lot about myself through that experience. Consent is extremely important, as is being with someone you trust in that manner, to have someone after. I did not wholly object to it of course, but it is something that I was probably not ready for at the time.
Feel what? Being prey? Are you someone that needs to be greatly pushed? And are you okay with that?
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Welcome to Duplicity. Sometimes the devices decide to send messages to other people unbeknownst to you.
What is a spa? [Of course by now she knows what the other facial is, though she hasn't given that many blowjobs in her time in the city.]
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Were you sending it to someone else, or just whatever they want?
Wait, you've never been to a spa? Massages and soaking in a hot tub and maybe being brushed with herb branches or something? Really?
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No. I was not asking anyone's opinions on that. Though yours is a good answer.
I cannot say I can even picture what you are describing, and it is likely not something I would want to participate in. [The lesser of the two facials she would like most likely.]
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It was an honest one.
... you don't like being pampered? I mean, fuck, hot stones are amazing.
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I do not go down too often on my knees. But I could be persuaded. [She's a good vers when she wants to be.]
I have been pampered my entire life. I prefer to do things myself.
What are hot stones?
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or told to be a good girl and see how much she can take.
Hmmmm.
Its not the same having a lover pamper you, or being pampered together.
Flat stones that are heated and they're laid down along the back and the muscles give way under the almost too hot heat.
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I think if someone I knew and was intimate with already, I perhaps would. I do not see myself going to a place for it.
But the stones sound nice.
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That I can understand though I'm curious to see how you'd react to being pampered. Some never take well to it.
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I would say most of my life I have been pampered still. I know what it is like to be catered to. It is not a bad thing, especially if someone is doing it to show that you are cared, but I would hardly make it a requirement, and I do not know if it is something I would actively choose. But I can be a reciprocal partner. [Both in that she wants the person she is with to have things they like, and that she can also give herself.]
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Especially when alternated with rougher things. Always a great combination.
I've serviced some in my years, never been much spoiled. At least not out of fear of my anger, but that's not the same.
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Do you prefer then to be... what is it called again? A Dominant that then serves? [It's right in the name, but it isn't like she has these conversations a lot. She's still learning and exploring.]
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When its happened in my life its never been like it is for many here. It was cruelty and dangerous. With no limits.
I've been on both side of things but the truth? I can't resist when a strong woman puts me in my place.
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I am somehow not surprised by that at all.
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Seeing you as a predator though...
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Though for the right person, I can certainly be either.
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That only feels like the right way to be. I can be the same. Just takes someone that can take control and make me feel it.
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Feel what? Being prey? Are you someone that needs to be greatly pushed? And are you okay with that?