I would say you would be captivated by my eyes and mouth either way, but I could be very good when I want to be. [Although she naturally leans on the side of being a bit of brat.]
I think if someone I knew and was intimate with already, I perhaps would. I do not see myself going to a place for it.
I would say most of my life I have been pampered still. I know what it is like to be catered to. It is not a bad thing, especially if someone is doing it to show that you are cared, but I would hardly make it a requirement, and I do not know if it is something I would actively choose. But I can be a reciprocal partner. [Both in that she wants the person she is with to have things they like, and that she can also give herself.]
I have only experienced that once. At the Crucible. I should have realized it when we were signing our consent away. [It was a case of too much too quickly, and that she's only just now circling back to kinks again.]
Do you prefer then to be... what is it called again? A Dominant that then serves? [It's right in the name, but it isn't like she has these conversations a lot. She's still learning and exploring.]
When its happened in my life its never been like it is for many here. It was cruelty and dangerous. With no limits. I've been on both side of things but the truth? I can't resist when a strong woman puts me in my place.
Some people will take what they can. I learned a lot about myself through that experience. Consent is extremely important, as is being with someone you trust in that manner, to have someone after. I did not wholly object to it of course, but it is something that I was probably not ready for at the time.
Feel what? Being prey? Are you someone that needs to be greatly pushed? And are you okay with that?
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I think if someone I knew and was intimate with already, I perhaps would. I do not see myself going to a place for it.
But the stones sound nice.
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That I can understand though I'm curious to see how you'd react to being pampered. Some never take well to it.
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I would say most of my life I have been pampered still. I know what it is like to be catered to. It is not a bad thing, especially if someone is doing it to show that you are cared, but I would hardly make it a requirement, and I do not know if it is something I would actively choose. But I can be a reciprocal partner. [Both in that she wants the person she is with to have things they like, and that she can also give herself.]
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Especially when alternated with rougher things. Always a great combination.
I've serviced some in my years, never been much spoiled. At least not out of fear of my anger, but that's not the same.
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Do you prefer then to be... what is it called again? A Dominant that then serves? [It's right in the name, but it isn't like she has these conversations a lot. She's still learning and exploring.]
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When its happened in my life its never been like it is for many here. It was cruelty and dangerous. With no limits.
I've been on both side of things but the truth? I can't resist when a strong woman puts me in my place.
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I am somehow not surprised by that at all.
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Seeing you as a predator though...
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Though for the right person, I can certainly be either.
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That only feels like the right way to be. I can be the same. Just takes someone that can take control and make me feel it.
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Feel what? Being prey? Are you someone that needs to be greatly pushed? And are you okay with that?